Vortexia's Secret

so here's the latest installment of Q and A.

I afraid J-Mo opened a Pandora’s box and I can't get my mind out of the gutter... so...What’s you favorite mood to be in? i.e. naughty/nice... Position..Setting..Location..Wildest place ever..Where would you want to..Ok well I think I've adequately coverd everything. -d rant

wow, you guys really do want all the dirty little details, dont you? i'll answer the first and last. the others will have to stay the subject of fantasy and imagination. so anyway, here we go. between naughty and nice, i would have to say that feeling naughty can be pretty damn fun. however, if i'm in the nice mood because mayhem has been especially sweet, then that beats everything.

where would i want to... many ideas for that, but one of the top ones is definitely under a waterfall. i have learned of two possible locations. one is a warm-water waterfall, which is rare since most are just a few degrees above freezing. that definitely has an advantage since the guy won't have to worry about major shrinkage, and neither of us will have to worry about freezing pieces of our anatomy off. however, the other one has a rock underneath that looks like a chair. that could obviously be comfortable. hahaha, one of my friends and i used to have a thing for the big hummers... back before the H2 came out. so i decided i wanted to have sex on the hood of a hummer out in the forest. you know, back in the days of playing "would you rather" late at night. now, i could live without that one. hmmm, visiting mayhem at his office one night when he's working late. ok, onto the next topic...

here's a question for ya to ponder v: you know the qualities that you look for in a mate... but what will you put up with that you don't necessarily look for. aka what types of qualities would be straws the camel could handle verses those that the camel can't. -the beer

that's a very good one. i cannot put up with somebody who degrades women and especially me. i'm not a traditional woman, and don't plan on becoming one to please you. i hate it when guys are overly cocky, although i live with it from time to time. at least with mayhem it's generally "i knew that" when he didn't. i can live with stinky boy feet and pits, some laziness, cussing (obviously). i can't handle a guy who's too full of himself, ignores me, would even think about hurting me in any way, bosses me around, cusses me out, has unrealistic expectations of me. if i move mountains, then be happy for me... but i don't, then don't be disappointed because you expected more. i'm sure there are more on each side, but i can't think of them. if you're truly curious, give me a list and i'll say yes or no to them.

What does Mayhem think of the occasional posts where you are critical of his actions or things you think he should have done but didn't? He does read your blog, right? And why doesn't he post comments? Oh, and do you think he is sometimes critical of you to his friends or does he basically realize that you are perfect? -andy

mayhem actually doesn't read the blog. generally when i'm critical of him in a post, he already knows he's in trouble. so his reaction would probably be the same as in real life. he usually admits when he's fucked up and is sorry about it. every once in a while he'll try to defend himself based on being practical or something. but he's generally very good about owning up to his mistakes, or acknowledging that he could have done something more. when this baby started, mayhem was given the option to read, but he pretty much decided against it. every once in a blue moon he'll read it, but he usually doesn't tell me when he does. i asked him before why he never leaves comments, but i'm still not sure why. i think he just wasn't really comfortable with the idea. maybe one of these days i'll find a way to get a guest post out of him. and thankfully, to reassure those of you who worry about mayhem hunting you down and kicking your ass for flirting with his girl, he is secure and trusting. he knows guys flirt with me, but he can trust me. he really kind of enjoys that he has that girl that everyone else loves, too. and finally...

i'm pretty sure that mayhem isn't critical of me to his friends. although part of it could be that i'm friends with all of his friends, i think it's generally because he thinks i'm perfect. i don't mean to sound egotistical and full of myself when i say that. it truly is pretty much what he thinks. he tells me i'm perfect probably at least once a week, and i think he has gotten upset with me twice in 6 years. and it lasted for maybe 15 minutes. so i'm pretty sure he doesn't gripe about me to his friends, and i think several of them kind of look for qualities like mine when looking for dates... although they probably wouldn't admit it to me. you don't tell one of the guys that you want a date like them. sadly, some of the guys just look for anything female that moves.

as for the sweet little compliment embedded into the question, thanks!!! to everyone, have a great night and a wonderful day tomorrow! hugs and kisses!

question: what are your daily little blessings? the things that catch you off guard and make you smile?