Tuesday, May 24, 2005
Bull-headed...
i hate when people are stubborn and bull-headed. specifically, i really hate when they're like that and happen to be dating me. as you regular readers know, mayhem is incredible a full 95% of the time. but every once in a while this other man comes out. this man wants to be the macho man. he's stubborn and hates the idea of giving in to a woman's idea or compromising with a woman. hell, i really don't even know if it's that or just that he gets stubborn. but after so long with no logical explanation, i interpret it as a gender thing. like he doesn't want to move into my place because it was originally MINE and not the man taking in his woman. but he's not one of those guys who is owned by his woman. we definitely know some of those men, and really i find it kind of pitiful. a relationship is based on two independent people, so i don't think a relationship with a whipped anybody is really healthy. but anyway, it just frustrates me. we talked about it earlier today and he said he was just momentarily being bull-headed about it and was over it. but i want to know why. what set off that side of him and why was it momentarily such a problem for him.
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